I'm Engaged, now What?

💍 I’m Engaged — Now What?

The Step-by-Step Guide to What Happens After "Yes!"

Soak It All In

Before diving into planning mode, take time to enjoy the moment with your fiancé(e). Celebrate privately, go out for dinner, take photos of your ring, just be in this happy moment. You’ll never get these early engagement days back, so don’t rush them. Share the News Tell your inner circle, family and close friends, before posting online. Call, FaceTime, or meet them in person if possible. Once they know, feel free to post that ring selfie on Instagram or TikTok and let the world join in your excitement!

Take Engagement Photos

These are fun, professional photos of you two during this special time, and they often come in handy for your save-the-dates, wedding website, or guestbook.

Talk About a Timeline

You don’t need a firm date yet, but it helps to discuss a general timeframe. Ask yourselves: Do we want a long or short engagement? What season would we love? Are there major life events we need to plan around (graduations, job changes, etc.)?

Set Your Wedding Budget

Before booking anything, have an open and honest conversation about money: Who’s contributing? What’s the total budget? What are the top 3 priorities for spending (venue, dress, food, etc.)? This sets the foundation for all other decisions.

Create a Preliminary Guest List

You can’t pick a venue or estimate costs without knowing how many people you plan to invite. Create a rough list of guests from both sides. This helps narrow down venues and impacts your budget significantly.

Start Researching & Touring Venues

Popular venues book up quickly, sometimes a year or more in advance. Narrow down the style and location you want (rustic barn, beach, hotel ballroom, etc.) and start reaching out for availability and pricing. Once you pick the date and book the venue you can book appointments at the bridal shop, photographer, bakeries, videographers, caterers, officiant, etc

Go Dress Shopping

Set a clear budget before booking appointments, and call bridal shops in Tulsa to confirm they carry gowns in your price range, it saves time and avoids heartbreak. Most dresses take 6–9 months to order and alter, so don’t delay. Bring a few trusted people, keep an open mind, and enjoy the experience. When you find the one that FEELS right, say yes and stop shopping!

Create a Wedding Website + Registry

Once you’ve locked in a date and location, build a wedding website to keep guests informed. You can also set up your registry, even if it’s early, it’s helpful for engagement gifts or showers down the line.

Enjoy Being Engaged!

In the thick of all the planning, don’t forget to date each other, talk about your future, and strengthen your bond. This season is more than just wedding preparation, it’s about building your life together. This is such a fun time relish the feelings

Final Thoughts

Getting engaged is more than just a proposal, it’s the beginning of your journey toward marriage. With thoughtful planning and clear communication, you can make the most of this magical season without becoming overwhelmed. Whether your wedding is in 6 months or 2 years, take it step-by-step, keep perspective, and most importantly…enjoy the ride 💗